Of Stone, Bone and Water

Ritual Skills and Ancestral Support for Grieving~ 8 Week Course

Enroll in Course $225 USD (limited reduced prices available)

How do I make medicine of all this grief?

This is a course for those whose hearts are broken open by personal, collective or ecological loss. For those who are struggling to find grief support that is effective and soul-nourishing. For those who want to cultivate supportive presence with themselves and for others in the transformation that grief invites. For those who desire meaningful ways to be in relationship with grief as a sacred practice.

This is a course for people who seek connection with the wider field of relations that life is made of, including their ancestors, to support healing. For those who seek to reclaim personal ritual arts and ancient ancestral connections for life-affirming grief expression. For those that want to support their deceased loved ones transition well into a healthy ancestor. For those who know the importance of grieving as salve for their own heart, and for the wider healing needed in our world.


This is a course for those who want their grief to be an offering that supports life.

Grief is relational and a learned skill, yet for many, cultural teachings for healthy grieving have been jeopardized by legacies of oppression and other historical disruptions.

We can re-learn the skills of healthy grieving through deepening into embodied practices, cultivating ritual skills, and nurturing relationships with our wise and loving ancestors.

In this 8 week online course, we delve into the foundations of grieving that lead to transformation and healing. We cover somatic practices to support healthy grief expression, different styles of grieving, and personal and cultural relationships to grief. We explore ritual skills and practices to support the movement of grief as an offering. We enter into connection with ancient loving ancestors, calling in their support in moments when our hearts are broken open. We deepen into cross-cultural practices that support grieving, including reclaiming ancestral practices and healing inter-generational grief.

When is the course?

The course starts on Sunday, April 21st, 2019 with the first lesson released, and ends Thursday, June 13th, 2019 with the last community call. Students have access to the course content for one year afterwards.

How is this program structured?

There are 8 lessons, released each week on Sunday afternoons 5:00pm PST. Each lesson consists of a video teaching, guided practice, reflection questions, and additional resources for deepening your practice and skills.

There are four live 1.5 hour Zoom community calls, every two weeks on Thursday evening 5:00pm PST (May 2, 16, 30 & June 13, 2019). Each call will consist of a ritual opening, deepening into teachings, experiential practices, and time for Q&A. The calls will be recorded and made available afterwards.

The course includes an online "submit a question" space for any questions that arise as you move through the course. All Q&As will be made anonymous and compiled in a communal sharing platform as a resource for all students to learn from.

Optional student-led small groups will be set up for those that find this type of engagement helpful for their learning and integration. Group process reflections will be offered to support group discussions.

A private Facebook page will be available for you to connect with other students and share.

What will I receive?

  • Over 6 hours of video lesson content
  • 6 hours of live teaching and Q&A via Zoom
  • Online question and answer forum
  • Guided visioning, reflection exercises and/or ritual practices each week
  • Additional resources for each lesson to explore further if you choose
  • Option to connect in student-led small groups for sharing
  • A recommended practitioner list if you wish to complement this course with 1:1 support

Will the content be relevant to me?

I welcome folks of diverse ancestries, faith-based traditions and lived experiences. This course is a trauma-aware, ritually safe and inclusive framework focused on embodiment for healthy grieving and reclaiming ritual and ancestral connection as sources of support. Students will have the flexibility to explore what strategies work for them personally and opportunity to nurture their own ancestrally and culturally relevant grieving practices.


What does this course cover?

Lesson 1 - Foundations of Sacred Grief

  • Somatic strategies for healthy containment and release
  • Circles of Regulation and Embodiment approach to emotional expression
  • Trauma-aware considerations for grieving and support

Lesson 2 - Personal and Cultural Relationship to Grief

  • Grieving styles and expressions
  • Grief literacy - personal learning and cultural narratives
  • Disenfranchised grief

Lesson 3 - Ritual Skills for Grieving

  • Ritual as transformative container for catalyzing and metabolizing grief
  • Partnership with Spirit allies - attuning, clearing and boundaries
  • Personal grief rituals to match different grieving styles

Lesson 4 - Ancestral Connection & Support

  • Foundations for connecting with your wise and loving ancestors
  • Connecting with an ancestral guide who is a culture carrier
  • Altar practice for deepening relationship

Lesson 5 - Cross Cultural Grieving & Reclaiming Ancestral Practices

  • 8 cross cultural principles for grieving
  • Apprenticing to reclaim ancestral life-ways of mourning
  • Affinity allies that support ritual grieving

Lesson 6 - Gateways into Grief

  • Exploring 8 gateways of formative grief experiences
  • Putting to practice embodiment, ritual and ancestral support
  • Ancestor-informed grief ritual

Lesson 7 - Grieving and the Rite of Passage of Death

  • Ways of approaching the right of passage of death
  • Therapeutic and ritual considerations for the bereaved and the deceased
  • Complicated or traumatic grief

Lesson 8 - Inter-generational Grief and Cultural Healing

  • Unresolved ancestral trauma and the body
  • Ritual safety considerations
  • Lineage repair for healing of personal and cultural harms


Course Accessibility

Cost - The cost of this 8 week course of $225 USD (~$295 CAD), paid by credit card or debit.

I am committed to keeping this work accessible and I offer a number of scholarship spaces at $185 and $145. All options have payment plans (for an additional $5).

Please reflect on your access to financial resources, while recognizing the systemic barriers to resources for folks who are coming from current and/or historically marginalized populations, such as queer and trans people, BIPOC, First Nations, and people living with disabilities.

If you have any questions, please reach out to me directly by email: shaunajanz@gmail.com.

Pricing options and payment plans can be chosen at the bottom of this page.

Learning - this course is a mixture of video content, written content, PDF handouts, optional small group sharing, and live conversation calls. At this time closed captioning is not available.

Your Instructor

Shauna Janz, MA
Shauna Janz, MA

Shauna is dedicated to tending belonging in our world, within ourselves,with each other, and with our other-than-human relations. She creates space for reaching into the rough and beautiful places that are a catalyst for transformation and healing, personally and collectively.

For over a decade she has been guiding others in healing and wholeness through individual, family and community grief support and ritual, trauma-informed training, group process, and more recently, ancestral healing. Discover more here.

She is a teacher with Ancestral Medicine; a trainer with BC Bereavement Helpline; and the education director with Learning Through Loss. She is founder of the Victoria Holistic Death Care Gatherings, and co-visionary for the annual Deathly Matters community conference.

Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts on Sunday, April 21st, 2019 with the first lesson being released. The course ends on Thursday June 13th, 2019 with the last Zoom community call.
How long do I have access to the course?
After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for one year - across any and all devices you own.
Are refunds available if I am not happy with the course?
A full refund is available for up to 30 days after enrollment. If you are not happy, I encourage you to first reach out to me (shaunajanz@gmail.com). If I can somehow support you in a way that would change your experience to a more beneficial one, I would like the opportunity to do that. I am always open to feedback, and am happy to extend the refund with no questions asked also.
Are there pre-requisites to enroll in this course?
Prior experience with personal healing work and spiritual practice is helpful. The ritual work and ancestral connection is based first in connecting with the supportive and compassionate powers that you already have relationship with (such as spirit allies, elementals, nature spirits, animal guides, angels, divine essence, deities, etc). If this is new for you, I invite you to explore and deepen your relationship to a spirit ally or guide in this way. If you would like support with this, please reach out and we can book a session together before the course starts.
Is this course helpful if I am experiencing acute grief or PTSD?
If you are someone who is currently in acute grief from a recent loss, or someone who lives with PTSD or other mental health experiences, it is important you also have other supports outside of this online course, and some foundational strategies for self-soothing and regulation that work for you. This course is grounded in trauma-aware practices, and we will explore some somatic tools for grounding and regulation. However, this course is not a substitute for professional therapeutic services.
What if I can't make the live Zoom calls?
All the live Zoom calls will be recorded and made available within 48 hours in the course menu to be accessed whenever is most convenient for you.

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